I just watched Mariano Rivera enter his final All Star Game and pitch a 1-2-3 8th. Everyone thought that Rivera would pitch the ninth for the save--that which he does best. Citi Field, home of the Mets, played Enter Sandman (which I've written about before in Spine Tingling Moments). One of the greatest pleasures I've ever had in sports is seeing one of my sports heroes live. I saw Mariano close in 2006 in old Yankee Stadium against the Texas Rangers. I can't describe the feeling as a Mariano fan hearing Enter Sandman and seeing the bullpen door open and the greatest closer in the over 100 year history of the game run toward the mound. I was nearly heartbroken last year thinking that he might end his career with an injury to his knee. He has come back this year as though it never happened. He has also made no doubt about this being his final year. Even as a Yankees fan, I don't think they will make the playoffs without a miracle or epic collapse of other teams. It would be fitting, though. Mariano would finish his career with the same number of post-season saves as the number he wears--42. Mariano is the last 42 in the Major League. The number has been retired by every team for Jackie Robinson. Mariano was grandfathered in since he already wore the number when it was retired.
But back to seeing him play live. I've never seen my favorite teams win championships in person. I never saw Michael Jordan or Scottie Pippen play in person. I never saw Derrick Thomas or Lawrence Taylor play in person. One of my greatest sports memories, and something I will remember until my mind fades and I call everyone Billy, is seeing that bullpen door open to BUM ba da DA DUM. At the end of this season, my last sports hero will retire. I don't know if I will ever have another one. Puig has had an amazing season so far. Yoenis Cespedes, a player who I thought would be a phenom base on the handful of rookie cards I have, just obliterated the Home Run Derby last night. I admired Brian Urlacher, who retired this NFL offseason, and I like Tamba Hali, but I don't look up to them like I do Rivera, Jordan, Pippen, Thomas, and Taylor. To say the least, it's going to take a fairly epic showing to muscle into a list with those five men.
Of those five, Mariano is also the only one who is squeaky clean. Jordan had his gambling and his over the top competitiveness. Pippen was recently charged with assault for a fight outside a nightclub and had various issues on the court in the twilight of his career. Thomas died from a blood clot due to his own drunk driving, leaving behind children from six different mothers. And Lawrence Taylor, well, just Google "Lawrence Taylor legal issues." Be prepared. The only sports hero I've seen play in person, is the only sports hero who hasn't let me down. Of course, he's blown saves. Of course, he's been beaten in the game. But he has never appeared on a BioGenesis list or any other steroid list. He's never been arrested or had any off the field problems. He's been constantly graceful on-camera and humble to every interviewer. He even said that if he had chosen his music, it wouldn't have been Enter Sandman. He listens to Christian music.
It is increasingly rare to see athletes who are as graceful in life as they are in their sport. In this age of 24 hour sports networks where we find out who is going to jail before the ink from their fingerprints is even dry, a sports hero who has never had his fingers dipped is equally rare. It could be that the negatives get all the hype (see my bitter previous post). It could be that we are becoming a nation of cynics. We've been disappointed with our Jordans, Rodriguezes, Thomases, Taylors, Hernandezes. We've delved into every part of their lives, again, thanks to the 24 hour sports networks and 24 hour news networks that jump all over anything negative on any celebrity, sports or otherwise. To keep your name out of the news while you are in the spotlight is becoming impossible.
Pause: Mariano was just awarded the ASG MVP. Selig mentioned his behavior off the filed. Mariano's family is with him. He just won a sports car. Chevrolet is donating millions in his name to youth baseball programs in a city of his choice. Mariano seemed absolutely surprised the he is being recognized at all. He thanked God, and then the fans. In case you haven't heard, everywhere he's played, he's been sent out with gifts. He threw out the first pitch for an opposing team. Think about that. First pitches are honors. We have our soldiers do them. We have celebrities. We have presidents and leaders. In a game where he would pitch against them, the New York Mets had Mariano throw out the ceremonial first pitch. Tell me when that has happened before. Google it. Go to baseball-reference.com. I'll wait.
Didn't think you'd find anyone. I'm sitting here, typing, with tears in my eyes because I was able to watch my last heroes come into a game for 16 pitches and throw a 1-2-3 8th inning. And because he is someone I can still look up to.
In my closet is a t-shirt. I bought it outside Safeco Field. It has never been worn. It is waiting for an autograph it will probably never get. I would like to frame it an hang it in my eventual man cave. The t-shirt is Yankee blue. On the left breast is the NY of the Yankees. On the back is Rivera and 42.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Anger, Negativity, Media, and Victor Borge
I'm angry.
It's making me feel old.
I can't truly escape this crotchetiness.
I'm frustrated with the way the country is being run and not run. I'm frustrated with the politics being more important than the issues and progress. I'm frustrated that our congressional leaders have a 9% approval rating. I'm even more frustrated that they've earned it.
But I can't get away. I can't turn it off.
It used to be I could turn on sports and at least get away. But I'm angry at sports. Not only are our heroes letting us down again, they are also being over-covered thanks to, apparently nothing else better for the media to do.
I could turn on SportsCenter. Homer Bailey threw the first no-hitter of the season this week. But first, I have to wait through the Hernandez murder investigation. I have to sit through all the coverage of the signing of a third string quarterback who has as sub-.500 completion percentage. I have to sit through the latest steroid scandal. I have to sit through speculation of where Dwight Howard may sign...WEEKS FROM NOW WHEN FREE AGENTS CAN ACTUALLY SIGN.
Steroid scandal notwithstanding, there is some great stuff going on in baseball. Max Scherzer has 13 wins and no losses. The last person to go 13-0 before the fourth of July was Roger Clemens in 1984. This rookie, Puig, is hitting lights out (until he got injured today). The Pirates have the best record in the MLB! I've written blog posts about how historically bad that franchise has been for the last 20 years!
There are great things happening! The problem is that we have to wade through all the crap that is thrown at us just to find them.
Maybe the media should start paying attention to the good in the world instead of barraging us with the bad. Take a minute and open a tab. Go to CNN.com. On the main page, how many headlines are anything close to positive? I just checked it out. When I visited the news site, there were 61 headlines/videos. 15 were not negative. That doesn't mean positive. Of those, 4 were on food, 2 were on how to hang the flag, and 3 were on insipid celebrities. I read the news less and less. I don't watch the news anymore. While I was on the CNN website, I couldn't help myself and had to check a headline on Westboro Baptist.
Friends on Facebook from both Right and Left post "news" stories. We have this need to seek out what we hate. I had to check the latest on Westboro. We seek out what and who don't agree with us. Something I tell my students is that the news reports the negative because the positive isn't news. A plane landing isn't new because thousands do it every day. The unusual is the one that doesn't. However, are we killing ourselves? Anger is good in moderation. Nearly anything is good in moderation, but not being able to escape that which makes us angry can't be good for us.
I raged tonight. I got angry at the news, at SportsCenter, at Facebook, at my insipid iPhone games, at my equally insipid Facebook games. I tried to read a book and couldn't focus. I tried to just sit out on the deck and enjoy the scenery from the house that I am sitting. Finally, I turned to YouTube. I rediscovered Victor Borge. I laughed. I watched his performances on Dean Martin and the Muppet Show. I watched the 5 most surprising Britain's Got Talent shows (Susan Boyle was #3). I felt better. But, somehow, eventually, things like Chong Smokes Fox News and Obama Anti-Christ crept onto the options. And don't even bother reading YouTube comments (or comments anywhere else, for that matter). What has happened to common decency? Does hiding behind a keyboard and computer screen free us to be dicks to each other?
The only thing that I've really enjoyed lately is immersing myself in Mass Effect 3. I want to see how the trilogy turns out. DON'T TELL ME! But even then, I enjoy the game and the escape that it provides, but I also know that there are other things that I need to be doing. I cleaned house today (my apartment and the house I'm house sitting). I went grocery shopping and made dinner. I can't escape into Mass Effect 24/7, although I did sink one of my weekend days into it, since then 2 hours or less, and only after I got my grading done.
The problem with all of this is that while the media covers the negative, there is a reason they cover it. We watch it. We click on it. We read it. Google, YouTube, Amazon, Facebook, they all track what we pay attention to--what we talk about. We ourselves can't help but look at the negative, seek out the negative, talk about the negative. And therein lies our challenge. Tomorrow is the Fourth of July. I don't know what I'm doing because I don't know if I'm still house sitting or not. But I will tell you one thing. I am not going to be on Facebook. I'm not going to be on CNN.com. I'm not going to be reading the negative. I'm not going to talk about the negative. I'm not going to be negative as much as I can possibly help it. I can't control those around me. I can't control you. Most of the time, I have a hard time even controlling me. But tomorrow, I'm not going to be angry. Not because it is the Fourth. Because it is tomorrow. And tomorrow has to be a better day. Friday will be another tomorrow and another better day. I'm going to go as long as I can without paying any attention to the negative. Don't get me wrong, this isn't a sticking my head in the sand and trying to pretend that I'm not sitting in a hand basket and wondering where we're headed. I know that I'm up to my ears in student debt. I know that, thanks to a do-nothing congress, the interest rates on a lot of student loan debt just doubled. I know that the government is watching us. I know that other governments are being overthrown. I know that man feel that parts of our own government are trying to take away our rights. I also know that all of that made me feel powerless in the first place and that led to my rage. I don't need it all 24/7. I don't need to be connected all the time. Tomorrow, I do go up to my parents for a barbecue. I'm not taking my laptop. I'm tempted to not take my phone (the only reason that I will is because my wife is abroad and we only have contact sporadically, so I could miss the one window for the week). Tomorrow, I'm unplugging until I have to grade papers.
Think about what makes you angry. Ask yourself if you are seeking it out. Ask yourself if you can do anything about it. Ask yourself if it matters that you are thinking about it right now. That's what I'm doing.
Now if you'll excuse me, there are still plenty of Victor Borge videos on YouTube.
It's making me feel old.
I can't truly escape this crotchetiness.
I'm frustrated with the way the country is being run and not run. I'm frustrated with the politics being more important than the issues and progress. I'm frustrated that our congressional leaders have a 9% approval rating. I'm even more frustrated that they've earned it.
But I can't get away. I can't turn it off.
It used to be I could turn on sports and at least get away. But I'm angry at sports. Not only are our heroes letting us down again, they are also being over-covered thanks to, apparently nothing else better for the media to do.
I could turn on SportsCenter. Homer Bailey threw the first no-hitter of the season this week. But first, I have to wait through the Hernandez murder investigation. I have to sit through all the coverage of the signing of a third string quarterback who has as sub-.500 completion percentage. I have to sit through the latest steroid scandal. I have to sit through speculation of where Dwight Howard may sign...WEEKS FROM NOW WHEN FREE AGENTS CAN ACTUALLY SIGN.
Steroid scandal notwithstanding, there is some great stuff going on in baseball. Max Scherzer has 13 wins and no losses. The last person to go 13-0 before the fourth of July was Roger Clemens in 1984. This rookie, Puig, is hitting lights out (until he got injured today). The Pirates have the best record in the MLB! I've written blog posts about how historically bad that franchise has been for the last 20 years!
There are great things happening! The problem is that we have to wade through all the crap that is thrown at us just to find them.
Maybe the media should start paying attention to the good in the world instead of barraging us with the bad. Take a minute and open a tab. Go to CNN.com. On the main page, how many headlines are anything close to positive? I just checked it out. When I visited the news site, there were 61 headlines/videos. 15 were not negative. That doesn't mean positive. Of those, 4 were on food, 2 were on how to hang the flag, and 3 were on insipid celebrities. I read the news less and less. I don't watch the news anymore. While I was on the CNN website, I couldn't help myself and had to check a headline on Westboro Baptist.
Friends on Facebook from both Right and Left post "news" stories. We have this need to seek out what we hate. I had to check the latest on Westboro. We seek out what and who don't agree with us. Something I tell my students is that the news reports the negative because the positive isn't news. A plane landing isn't new because thousands do it every day. The unusual is the one that doesn't. However, are we killing ourselves? Anger is good in moderation. Nearly anything is good in moderation, but not being able to escape that which makes us angry can't be good for us.
I raged tonight. I got angry at the news, at SportsCenter, at Facebook, at my insipid iPhone games, at my equally insipid Facebook games. I tried to read a book and couldn't focus. I tried to just sit out on the deck and enjoy the scenery from the house that I am sitting. Finally, I turned to YouTube. I rediscovered Victor Borge. I laughed. I watched his performances on Dean Martin and the Muppet Show. I watched the 5 most surprising Britain's Got Talent shows (Susan Boyle was #3). I felt better. But, somehow, eventually, things like Chong Smokes Fox News and Obama Anti-Christ crept onto the options. And don't even bother reading YouTube comments (or comments anywhere else, for that matter). What has happened to common decency? Does hiding behind a keyboard and computer screen free us to be dicks to each other?
The only thing that I've really enjoyed lately is immersing myself in Mass Effect 3. I want to see how the trilogy turns out. DON'T TELL ME! But even then, I enjoy the game and the escape that it provides, but I also know that there are other things that I need to be doing. I cleaned house today (my apartment and the house I'm house sitting). I went grocery shopping and made dinner. I can't escape into Mass Effect 24/7, although I did sink one of my weekend days into it, since then 2 hours or less, and only after I got my grading done.
The problem with all of this is that while the media covers the negative, there is a reason they cover it. We watch it. We click on it. We read it. Google, YouTube, Amazon, Facebook, they all track what we pay attention to--what we talk about. We ourselves can't help but look at the negative, seek out the negative, talk about the negative. And therein lies our challenge. Tomorrow is the Fourth of July. I don't know what I'm doing because I don't know if I'm still house sitting or not. But I will tell you one thing. I am not going to be on Facebook. I'm not going to be on CNN.com. I'm not going to be reading the negative. I'm not going to talk about the negative. I'm not going to be negative as much as I can possibly help it. I can't control those around me. I can't control you. Most of the time, I have a hard time even controlling me. But tomorrow, I'm not going to be angry. Not because it is the Fourth. Because it is tomorrow. And tomorrow has to be a better day. Friday will be another tomorrow and another better day. I'm going to go as long as I can without paying any attention to the negative. Don't get me wrong, this isn't a sticking my head in the sand and trying to pretend that I'm not sitting in a hand basket and wondering where we're headed. I know that I'm up to my ears in student debt. I know that, thanks to a do-nothing congress, the interest rates on a lot of student loan debt just doubled. I know that the government is watching us. I know that other governments are being overthrown. I know that man feel that parts of our own government are trying to take away our rights. I also know that all of that made me feel powerless in the first place and that led to my rage. I don't need it all 24/7. I don't need to be connected all the time. Tomorrow, I do go up to my parents for a barbecue. I'm not taking my laptop. I'm tempted to not take my phone (the only reason that I will is because my wife is abroad and we only have contact sporadically, so I could miss the one window for the week). Tomorrow, I'm unplugging until I have to grade papers.
Think about what makes you angry. Ask yourself if you are seeking it out. Ask yourself if you can do anything about it. Ask yourself if it matters that you are thinking about it right now. That's what I'm doing.
Now if you'll excuse me, there are still plenty of Victor Borge videos on YouTube.
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